Allgood v. Allgood

• Court: Oklahoma Supreme Court
• Writing for the Court: DOOLIN; LAVENDER
• Citation: Allgood v. Allgood, 626 P.2d 1323 (Okla. 1981)
• Decision Date: 24 February 1981
• Docket Number: No. 53024,53024
• Parties: Ruth Ann LeVan ALLGOOD, Appellant, v. Richard J. ALLGOOD, Appellee.

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626 P.2d 1323

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Ruth Ann LeVan ALLGOOD, Appellant, v. Richard J. ALLGOOD, Appellee.

No. 53024.

Supreme Court of Oklahoma.

Feb. 24, 1981.

Rehearing Denied May 4, 1981.

Appeal from the District Court of Comanche County; William M. Roberts, Trial Judge.

An appeal from the trial judge's finding that alimony should be terminated because spouse is cohabiting with another man, even though not married to him.

REVERSED.

Warren H. Crane, Lawton, for appellant.

C. E. Wade, Jr., Wade & Kinslow, Lawton, for appellee.

DOOLIN, Justice:

The situation is not new: an alimony-receiving ex-wife living with her boyfriend. But the question presented is unique to this Court and undoubtedly has been pondered by alimony-paying ex-husbands since time immemorial. The question: should alimony for support be ended when an ex-spouse (wife in this case) cohabits with another man on a permanent basis, but chooses not to marry him? Is such a living arrangement an affront to public policy, or a fraud on the court, to demand retribution by terminating the alimony? We say not.

The Allgoods were divorced in Lawton in 1975, with the defendant agreeing to alimony payments of $3,500.00 per month for 24 months, $2,500.00 per month for 12 months and $1,500.00 per month for 84 months. Plaintiff moved to Dallas, purchased a house and began work at a travel agency for $685.00 per month. A year later she met her paramour and he moved in with her. Sometime later they purchased a condominium as joint tenants with right of survivorship, she paying cash for half the purchase price and he agreeing to make the monthly mortgage payments for the other half. They share living expenses but maintain separate bank accounts and make it known they are not married. They both admit they view the arrangement as permanent. They say they have no desire to marry because of bad first marriages; that this decision has nothing to do with the termination of alimony if they do marry. Plaintiff's financial statement, submitted upon purchase of the condo, admits assets in excess of $100,000.00. They have made a point to avoid a common-law marriage situation.

Defendant submits the living arrangement of his former spouse and her paramour is a marriage in every aspect except the ceremony sanctifying it, and is thus a fraud on the court (which by its decree of divorce provided for termination of alimony only upon the death or remarriage of plaintiff) defendant further contends wife's action is violative of the state's public policy by condoning sex outside of marriage.

Plaintiff argues only a remarriage (or death) can end the alimony, that fornication is not against Oklahoma law ¹ and if the defendant had wanted to insist on the post-marriage chastity of the plaintiff as a condition of alimony, he might have argued that point during the divorce negotiations.

There is some slight case law precedent within Oklahoma for the defendant's position.

As far as we can ascertain, this Court has addressed the issue once before, and that in 1908, in the case of Stanfield v. Stanfield, 22 Okl. 574, 98 P. 334 (1908). ² In Stanfield the defendant husband agreed to pay his plaintiff wife $150.00 per month alimony on condition she remain single and unmarried. He later said it was his understanding that his ex-wife planned to marry within six months following the divorce and based upon that "understanding" he sought to terminate the alimony. The Court said:

"In the absence of a showing of a change in the financial condition of the party charged, or the remarriage, or some other similar and controlling circumstances occurring in the life of the party benefited, the decree allowing alimony ought not to be rescinded or annulled. After the divorce the parties go into the world as strangers to each other, and generally even the adultery of the wife, except possible under special conditions not involved in this case, will not relieve the husband of the payment of alimony in accordance with the decree." 98 P. at 340. (Emphasis added)

The case before us, however, shows neither remarriage, death of the recipient of the alimony, nor a change in financial conditions. The latter element is of dubious value based on the precise wording of our pre-1979 statute and the divorce decree.

Alimony awards were once considered final judgments in Oklahoma which continued regardless of the future marital positions of the former spouses. Gilcrease v. Gilcrease, 186 Okl. 451, 98 P.2d 906, 127 A.L.R. 735 (1940). The 1965 State Legislature added Section 1289 to Title 12 to allow the trial court in its discretion to provide for the termination of alimony in cases of death or remarriage. The statute was amended two years later to permit the remarried spouse 90 days in which to show the court that her continued needs warranted the continuation of the alimony payments. See dissent by Hodges, V.C.J., Stuart v. Stuart, 555 P.2d 611 (Okl.1976).

We note in passing only the 1979 Oklahoma Legislature amended 12 O.S. § 1289 to permit the termination of alimony when the payee (former spouse) cohabits with a member of the opposite sex, based on a change in the need for alimony support. Cohabitation is defined as dwelling together as man and wife in a private conjugal relationship which does not meet the standards of either a common-law marriage or a legally solemnized marriage. That change took effect October 1, 1979, and has no effect on this case.

Several states support the former husband's position through case law. Perhaps foremost is Garlinger v. Garlinger, 137 N.J.Super. 56, 347 A.2d 799 (1975), wherein the New Jersey Court ruled that unchastity of the former wife is a factor in the termination or reduction of alimony, but is not misconduct per se. "If it is being shown that the wife is being supported in whole or in part by the paramour, the former husband may come into court for a determination of whether the alimony should be terminated or reduced," based on her changed circumstances: her need for continued support alimony. The same determination may be demanded even if the paramour contributes nothing to his own support, so that the wife's alimony is supporting the paramour. The court in Garlinger suspended alimony for only those months when the paramour lived with the former spouse.

The distinctions between Garlinger and our case come when viewing the distinctions between the divorce statutes of New Jersey and Oklahoma. New Jersey permits modification of support alimony at any time based on a change of circumstances (N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23); Oklahoma permitted modification of support alimony (prior to 1979 amendment) only upon remarriage or death of the spouse, and even in the case of remarriage the alimony may continue if the remarried spouse can successfully argue continued need. 12 O.S.1971 § 1289.

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