Blakely v. Blakely, 2010–CA–01948–COA.

• Decision Date: 15 May 2012
• Docket Number: No. 2010–CA–01948–COA.,2010–CA–01948–COA.
• Citation: 88 So.3d 798
• Parties: George Curtis BLAKELY, Jr., Appellant v. Teena Lynnette Williams BLAKELY, Appellee.
• Court: Mississippi Court of Appeals

88 So.3d 798

George Curtis BLAKELY, Jr., Appellant

v.Teena Lynnette Williams BLAKELY, Appellee.

No. 2010–CA–01948–COA.

Court of Appeals of Mississippi.

May 15, 2012.

Kent E. Smith, Holly Springs, attorneys for appellant.

Luther Putnam Crull Jr., attorneys for appellee.

Before LEE, C.J., ISHEE and FAIR, JJ.

FAIR, J., for the Court:

¶ 1. George and Teena Blakely were granted an irreconcilable differences divorce in the Grenada County Chancery Court, ending a twenty-one-year marriage. They have two children, ten-year-old Kurt and nineteen-year-old Kayla. George received custody of Kayla by agreement, while the chancery court awarded custody of Kurt to Teena after a trial. George now appeals, arguing that the chancellor erred in applying the Albright factors. George also contends the court erroneously failed to award him child support and college expenses for Kayla. We find the chancellor's decisions supported by substantial evidence, so we affirm.

FACTS

¶ 2. On October 15, 2008, Teena filed for divorce, alleging habitual cruel and inhuman treatment. She and George continued to reside in the marital home until January 28, 2009, when Teena left. Kayla and Kurt remained with George until February 22, 2010, when a temporary order for visitation and support was entered, giving George custody of the children and requiring Teena to pay support. The couple later agreed to an irreconcilable differences divorce and submitted the issues of Kurt's custody and support to the court. Custody of Kayla was awarded to George by agreement because Kayla had a strained relationship with her mother. After a one-day trial, held on September 15, 2010, the chancery court awarded custody of Kurt to Teena. The chancellor denied any child support or college expenses for Kayla. George challenges these rulings on appeal.

STANDARD OF REVIEW

¶ 3. Questions of law are reviewed de novo. Irving v. Irving, 67 So.3d 776, 778 (¶ 11) (Miss.2011). A chancellor's factual findings, on the other hand, will not be disturbed unless she was manifestly wrong, clearly erroneous, or applied an erroneous legal standard. Carambat v. Carambat, 72 So.3d 505, 510–11 (¶ 24) (Miss.2011). As long as substantial evidence supports the chancellor's findings, an appellate court is without authority to disturb them, even if it would have found otherwise as an original matter. Joel v. Joel, 43 So.3d 424, 429 (¶ 14) (Miss.2010). Additionally, if the chancellor has made no specific findings, we generally proceed on the assumption that she resolved all such fact issues in favor of the appellee. Ferrara v. Walters, 919 So.2d 876, 881 (¶ 8) (Miss.2005) (citing Newsom v. Newsom, 557 So.2d 511, 514 (Miss.1990)).

DISCUSSION

1. Child Support and College Expenses for Kayla

¶ 4. In his first issue, George contends the chancellor should have awarded him child support and college expenses for Kayla. He argues the chancellor had no legal basis to deny these awards.

¶ 5. At the outset, we note that support for Kayla was not clearly addressed by the property settlement agreement, nor was it expressly submitted to the chancery court for determination. The Blakelys received an irreconcilable differences divorce under Mississippi Code Annotated section 93–5–2 (Supp.2011). The only agreed issues were that George would get custody of Kayla and that each party would be responsible for half of the children's medical expenses. While education expenses and child support were submitted as issues for the chancery court to decide, it is unclear whether they are for both children or only Kurt. The document's organization and use of singular pronouns suggest that the latter is more probable.

¶ 6. The issues of Kayla's support and college expenses do not appear to have been expressly tried or even given much thought prior to this appeal, as the circumstances suggest any award would have been small. Kayla was nearly nineteen years of age at the time of trial. She was attending college and lived on campus, though she would stay with George on weekends. Kayla had a scholarship that paid for her tuition, housing, and food expenses. Books were the only out of pocket expense testified to at trial, costing about $300 per semester. Kayla was also employed part time, and testimony indicated that she had paid for some of the cost her books, though she received an allowance from George. George also provided her with a vehicle and paid for some miscellaneous expenses.

¶ 7. Nonetheless, the chancellor addressed support and education expenses for Kayla in her judgment, and neither of the parties has argued the issue of waiver or attacked the adequacy and sufficiency of the consent agreement; so we will not address these potential concerns. We take it as a fact that the issues of Kayla's support and college expenses were submitted to the chancery court for determination.

¶ 8. The chancellor held that Kayla's course of conduct toward her mother warranted a denial of child support and college expenses. The chancellor found that Kayla had expressed a “total lack of respect” and an “unwillingness to have a relationship” with her mother. In denying support, the chancellor apparently relied on Hambrick v. Prestwood, 382 So.2d 474 (Miss.1980).

¶ 9. Hambrick addressed the duty of a parent to support a college-age child. Hambrick's nineteen-year-old daughter had finished high school, was attending college, and was employed and earning an income. She expressed a dislike of her father that was “close to hate” and had refused to have contact with him, averring that she had no intention to do so in the future. The supreme court held:

The duty of a father to send a child to college, under the circumstances of this case, is not absolute. It is dependent, not only on the child's aptitude and qualifications for college, but on whether the child's behavior toward, and relationship with the father, makes the child worthy of the additional effort and financial burden that will be placed on him. Sending children to college is expensive and can cause much sacrifice on the part of parents. It cannot ordinarily be demanded, but must be earned by children through respect for their parents, love, affection and appreciation of parental efforts, none of which are present in this instance.

Id. at 477. The supreme court reversed the chancellor's award of child support to the custodial parent. Id. at 477–78.

¶ 10. This case presents many similarities to Hambrick. Although Kayla did not testify, it was uncontested that she and her mother had a strained relationship even before the separation. After the separation, Kayla refused to visit her mother and generally refused to communicate with her. Teena testified that when they did speak, her daughter would repeatedly call her a “whore.” Kayla rebuffed any attempts at reconciliation, refusing to return phone calls or text messages, and she had refused Teena's gift for her high school graduation. Kayla had also threatened to lie in court to prevent Teena from getting custody or visitation, and she had assisted her father in alienating Kurt from his mother. This behavior caused Kurt great stress and difficulty with visitation.

¶ 11. George argues that the chancellor erroneously blamed Kayla when both mother and child were responsible for the strained relationship. He contends that Kayla's anger at her mother's adultery is understandable and that Teena had further strained the relationship by expressing concern over her daughter's friendship with an older man. George notes also that the estrangement is not as severe as it was in Hambrick, where the daughter had not spoken with her father for six or seven years. While we recognize some validity in these arguments, sitting as an appellate court reviewing a cold record, we are not in a position to second-guess the chancellor's interpretation of something as complex and personal as the relationship between a mother and her teenage daughter.

¶ 12. George also contends that the chancellor should have followed the holding in Caldwell v. Caldwell, 579 So.2d 543, 548 (Miss.1991), where the supreme court reversed the denial of child support to a fifteen-year-old child. The court held that a child of that age could only surrender her right to support through conduct that was “clear and extreme.” Id. However, we note that the Caldwell decision was based on the child's age-the supreme court distinguished it from Hambrick on that basis. Id. As Kayla was college-aged, the chancellor did not err in applying Hambrick.

¶ 13. After reviewing the record in this case, we conclude the chancellor acted within her discretion in denying child support and educational expenses for Kayla.

2. Custody of Kurt; Albright factors

¶ 14. In his remaining issue, George contends the chancellor should have awarded custody of Kurt to him. He argues the chancellor's decision resulted from an erroneous analysis of the Albright factors.

¶ 15. In Albright v. Albright, 437 So.2d 1003, 1005 (Miss.1983), the Mississippi Supreme Court held that the best interest of the child must control in all custody decisions, and this principle has been adopted as public policy by the legislature in Mississippi Code Annotated section 93–5–24 (Rev.2004). In determining the best interest of the child in custody disputes, it is the duty of the court to consider that the relationship of parent and child is for the benefit of the child, not the parent. See Reno v. Reno, 253 Miss. 465, 475, 176 So.2d 58, 62 (1965) (quoting J.W. Bunkley, Jr. & W.E. Morse, Bunkley and Morse's Amis on Divorce and Separation in Mississippi § 8.01 (2d ed.1957)).

¶ 16. To determine where the child's best interest lies, chancellors must consider the following factors when evaluating the fitness of each parent: (1) age, health, and sex of the children; (2) continuity of care; (3) parenting skills and the willingness and capacity to provide primary child care; (4) employment responsibilities of the parents; (5) physical and mental...