Cunningham v. Gray

Decision Date16 January 1981
Docket NumberNo. 781787,781787
Citation221 Va. 792,273 S.E.2d 562
PartiesRoland David CUNNINGHAM, Jr. v. Rosalind M. GRAY and Charles M. Gray. Record
CourtVirginia Supreme Court

William W. Muse, Richmond (Blanton & Muse, Richmond, on brief), for appellant.

H. Franklin Taylor, III, Richmond, for appellees.

Before I'ANSON, C. J., and CARRICO, HARRISON, COCHRAN, POFF, COMPTON and THOMPSON, JJ.

COMPTON, Justice.

In this family law case, we review the trial court's action in granting a stepfather's petition for adoption over objection of the child's natural father.

In April of 1978, appellees Rosalind M. Gray and Charles M. Gray filed a petition in the court below for the adoption by Mr. Gray of Tracy Michelle Cunningham and for change of her name. The child was nine years of age and the natural daughter of Mrs. Gray by her former marriage to appellant Roland David Cunningham, Jr. After the appropriate investigation and a hearing upon the natural father's objection to the proposed adoption, the trial court found that the Grays had proved by clear and convincing evidence the adoption was in the best interests of the child and that consent of the natural father was withheld contrary to those interests. Accordingly, the court below granted the adoption and change of name by order entered in September of 1978, from which we awarded the natural father an appeal.

The evidence shows the Cunninghams were married in New Jersey in 1968. The child was born the following year. The parties separated in 1971 when Cunningham went to live with his parents. The marriage was terminated in 1972 by a New Jersey divorce decree. Custody of the child was awarded the mother and Cunningham was granted reasonable rights of visitation. He was ordered to pay $15 per week as child support.

The mother testified she remained in New Jersey until 1973 when she moved to Richmond. During the marriage, according to the mother, Cunningham was unable to hold any job for more than four months; he worked for awhile as a deliveryman and in a department store. After the separation and before the mother left New Jersey, Cunningham was not employed and paid no child support. During that period of approximately two and one-half years, Cunningham saw the child about 10 times, frequently failing to appear for prearranged visitation.

The mother moved from New Jersey accompanied by the child without notifying the father because, she said, he was occasionally violent, upsetting the child. Cunningham made no child support payments after the mother and child moved to Richmond. According to the father's testimony, an attorney in New Jersey told him that such payments were no longer required when the child was taken from the jurisdiction. Cunningham testified he had since learned that advice was erroneous and asked the court below to determine the arrearage in support payments so that he could "become current" with his support obligations.

The evidence showed Cunningham had been convicted in 1977 of trespassing and served 40 days in jail. At the time of the hearing he was unemployed.

The evidence was in conflict about the extent of Cunningham's interest in his daughter after the mother moved with her to Richmond. Cunningham, who had not remarried and still lived with his parents in New Jersey, presented evidence that, while permitting annual visits by the child's paternal grandmother, the natural mother frustrated the father's several efforts to talk with his daughter by telephone, to see her in person in Richmond, and to present her with occasional gifts. The mother denied she prevented Cunningham from contacting the child. She added the child was "well aware" that she had a living natural father and said that the child has a scrapbook containing pictures of Cunningham. The evidence was undisputed that Cunningham had actually seen the child only once since 1973.

The mother married Gray, an employee of the federal government, in 1976 when both were approximately 30 years of age. The evidence showed the child has an excellent relationship with the stepfather.

According to the applicable statute, a petition for adoption under the circumstances of ...

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    • United States
    • Virginia Court of Appeals
    • August 4, 1987
    ...is controlled by the Virginia Supreme Court decisions in Jolliff v. Crabtree, 224 Va. 654, 299 S.E.2d 358 (1983); Cunningham v. Gray, 221 Va. 792, 273 S.E.2d 562 (1981); Ward v. Faw, 219 Va. 1120, 253 S.E.2d 658 (1979); and Malpass v. Morgan, 213 Va. 393, 192 S.E.2d 794 (1972). We disagree.......
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    • Virginia Court of Appeals
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    • Virginia Court of Appeals
    • August 5, 1986
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