Piantoni v. Daley
| Decision Date | 13 May 2022 |
| Docket Number | 21-AP-233 |
| Parties | Matthew Piantoni [*] v. Kathleen Daley |
| Court | United States State Supreme Court of Vermont |
APPEALED FROM: Superior Court, Bennington Unit, Family Division No. 21-DM-00037, Kerry Ann McDonald-Cady, Trial Judge
ENTRY ORDER
In the above-entitled cause, the Clerk will enter:
Father appeals from the family division's final order establishing parental rights and responsibilities (PRR) and parent-child contact (PCC) for the parties' one minor child. We affirm.
The trial court found the following. The parties met through mutual friends in July 2016 when father was visiting Vermont from North Carolina. During this visit, the parties had a single intimate encounter which resulted in mother's unplanned pregnancy. The parties were not in an established relationship at the time. Mother informed father that she was pregnant in August 2016.
Mother visited father in North Carolina, where father admitted that he was drinking regularly and had used cocaine. Mother invited father to live with her in Vermont contingent on him not using intoxicating substances. Father then moved in with mother at her home in Bennington.
Mother is a licensed social worker and father is a carpenter. When father relocated to Vermont, mother had recently begun working at Bennington College as a social worker. Father helped with projects around mother's home. Mother also networked and helped father find employment as a carpenter.
Mother gave birth in April 2017. After son was born, mother continued to work at Bennington College, but was able to work from home most of the time. She also had summers off. For the first two years of son's life, father worked full-time as a carpenter outside the home. During this time, mother was the primary care provider, breastfeeding him, bathing him changing him, and providing for all his daily needs. When she returned to work full-time in person, she hired a nanny to care for son. Father assisted in parenting whenever he was not working by helping with feeding, changing, and nighttime wakeups. Father also helped with cooking and doing dishes.
After son's birth, the parties' relationship soured. Mother observed father drinking again, consuming a six-pack of beer on some days. Mother encouraged father to seek substance-abuse treatment, but he did not. In October 2017 mother asked father to move out. He refused.
In the summer of 2018, the parties' relationship deteriorated further. Father was consuming alcohol regularly and began staying out late. The parties argued frequently. During one altercation, mother told father not to come home intoxicated. Father then did exactly that. He climbed through a window pushing out the air conditioner, which woke up mother and son. Mother also found empty alcohol containers in the basement. Mother asked father to move out multiple times. Father perceived mother's requests for him to move out as her being emotional and the result of medical and mental-health issues.
When son was approximately two years old, father's job ended and around the same time son's nanny could no longer care for him. Given this circumstance, the parties decided that father would care for son while mother worked. The parties also agreed that father would look for a new job, and then save enough money to allow him to find separate housing and move out.
For about eighteen months, father did not work and instead cared for son. Mother also hired her birth doula to come to the house and help with son. When mother returned from work or worked from home, she took over primary parenting.
While father was home with son, they did fun, creative activities that were healthy and nurturing. For example, father regularly brought son to the local library, showed him planes at the airport, attended a children's museum, and took him on a trip to visit extended family and explore the woods.
Around June 2020, mother engaged her cousin to help get father to move out. Mother's cousin came to the house and told father he needed to leave immediately, and father did so under protest. From June 2020 to the date of the trial court's final order, the parties followed a PCC schedule set by mother: father had son on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 8:30 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. and Saturdays overnight into Sunday while mother had son all other times.
Father commenced this parentage action in December 2020. Father sought primary physical and legal PRR and to limit mother's PCC to every other weekend. Mother sought primary legal and physical PRR with father having PCC only every other weekend. The court held a contested hearing in August 2021.
It issued a written decision in September 2021 including extensive findings and conclusions regarding PRR and PCC. The court carefully analyzed each statutory best-interests factor and determined that most of them favored mother, while the other factors were neutral or not applicable. The court noted that both parties appeared to be caring and loving parents and both played an important role in son's life. However, the court expressed concern regarding father's alcohol use. It also placed particular weight on mother's role as primary caregiver and decisionmaker for most of son's life and found that son benefitted from routine and consistency at mother's house.
The court awarded mother primary legal and physical PRR. It established a four-week alternating PCC schedule providing father with overnight contact every week, either from Friday afternoon to Sunday afternoon or from Thursday afternoon to Friday afternoon, depending on the week. The court ordered that each parent have independent contact with son's teachers and doctors and that mother advise father of any major medical or education decisions and permit father to attend son's medical and dental appointments. It also established a detailed holiday and vacation schedule providing each parent with equal holiday and vacation time with son. The court further ordered that each party is entitled to a daily telephone or video-conference call with son when he is with the other party.
On appeal, father does not challenge the award of PRR to mother; he contests only the PCC schedule. He argues that the trial court provided no explanation for decreasing his contact with son and that the court's findings and applicable legal standards supported more PCC for father than was ordered. Father also contends that the court's analysis of the second best-interests factor was flawed because it rested on an erroneous conclusion that his struggle with substance abuse was ongoing.
The family division has broad discretion in establishing parent-child contact. Lee v. Ogilbee, 2018 VT 96, ¶ 15, 208 Vt. 400. We will not disturb the court's findings of fact unless, "viewing the record in the light most favorable to the prevailing party and excluding the effect of modifying evidence, there is no credible evidence to support the findings." Hoover v. Hoover, 171 Vt. 256, 258 (2000). We will not overturn the "court's legal conclusions so long as they are supported by its findings." Sochin v. Sochin, 2005 VT 36, ¶ 4, 178 Vt. 535 (mem.). "[I]t is the exclusive role of the trial court to assess the credibility of witnesses and weigh the evidence; we do not reweigh the evidence on appeal." Peralta v. Brannan, 2020 VT 100, ¶ 21.
In awarding parent-child contact, the family division must consider all relevant evidence concerning the statutory factors set forth in 15 V.S.A. § 665(b) that address the best interests of the children. Lee, 2018 VT 96, ¶ 15. But § 665(b) "imposes no specific requirement on how this consideration is to be manifested in the court's findings and conclusions." Trahnstrom v. Trahnstrom, 171 Vt. 507, 507 (2000) (mem.) (quotation omitted). We will not disturb the family division's order regarding parent-child contact if it reflects "reasoned judgment in light of the record evidence." DeLeonardis v. Page, 2010 VT 52, ¶ 20, 188 Vt. 94 (quotation omitted).
Father argues that the court's findings did not support the PCC schedule it imposed. He points out that the court found he was a loving, caring parent, always had consistent contact with son, and played an important role in son's life. In father's view, the court's analysis of the best-interests factors compelled a PCC schedule more favorable to father.
We disagree. Even where a child has a strong bond with both parents and neither party's parenting is deficient, the trial court may nevertheless decide it is appropriate under the circumstances to provide one parent with more contact time than the other. The court's PCC schedule here, which primarily consolidated time for father on weekends and placed son with mother during most weekdays, was amply supported by its findings. In particular, the court found credible mother's concerns about risks to son from father's alcohol use. It credited mother's testimony that she smelled intoxicants on father's breath during a PCC exchange in the fall of 2020. The court also noted several other instances where negative consequences resulted from father's alcohol use. The court further considered the lack of self-reflection evident in the fact that father denied having any problem with alcohol consumption and refused any treatment, even though his alcohol use negatively impacted his personal relationships. Though the court did not agree with mother that father's alcohol use supported cutting off fa...
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