Ryave v. Ryave
| Decision Date | 29 June 1977 |
| Citation | 249 Pa.Super. 78,375 A.2d 766 |
| Parties | Arnold H. RYAVE v. Lillian RYAVE, Appellant. |
| Court | Pennsylvania Superior Court |
Argued April 13, 1977.
Robert Raphael, Pittsburgh, with him Raphael Sheinberg & Barmen, Pittsburgh, for appellant.
George Shorall, Pittsburgh, for appellee.
Before WATKINS, President Judge, and JACOBS, HOFFMAN, CERCONE PRICE, and SPAETH, JJ.
Appellant contends that the lower court erred in sustaining appellee's objections to the master's recommendation that the action be dismissed and in granting a divorce a.v.m. [1] We affirm the lower court's decree.
On June 20, 1947, appellant-wife and appellee-husband were married in Atlantic City, New Jersey. The parties resided in Pittsburgh, Allegheny County. They have four children, two of whom still reside with appellant. On January 13, 1972, appellee filed a complaint in divorce a.v.m. on the grounds of indignities. On May 12, 1974, the lower court appointed a master who conducted hearings on April 22, 1975, and May 12, 1975. Appellee testified as follows: the parties began suffering problems shortly after their marriage. These difficulties intensified during 1965 through 1971 so that life with appellant became intolerable and he left the marital abode in September, 1971, and never lived with appellant again. Appellant constantly derided appellee in the presence of their children and friends by referring to him as a lowly truck driver and a hearse driver. [2] Appellant demeaned appellee by stating that he had an inferior education and occupation. In addition to humiliating appellee in front of business associates, she cursed and derided him at the supper table. Appellee, who has a pilot's license, often flew small planes for business purposes. Appellant frequently wished for his death and told appellee that she wished that he would hit a mountain on the way back and that she prayed that the plane would crash. Further, appellant repeatedly told appellee to leave the house and expressed the wish that she were big and strong enough to throw him out. Appellant also constantly ridiculed appellee's family lineage by saying that he was "shit" and that he came from "shit". Appellant referred to appellee's father as an idiot with a cigar in his mouth and to his mother as a deaf mute. Appellant called appellee a "meal ticket". Appellee stated that this constant humiliation and derision caused him great embarrassment and undermined his normal good health to the extent that he was unable to pass the physical examination required to retain his pilot's license due to hypertension. He consulted a physician who advised appellee to leave the home whenever appellant began to nag him. Appellee testified that appellant was completely irresponsible with money and squandered it on luxuries. Because appellant did not prepare meals regularly or clean the house, appellee was forced to hire a maid. Appellee stated that appellant did not bathe herself nor did she clean her clothes. Appellant's daily cycle did not correspond to appellee's. She stayed up almost all night when appellee was asleep and she slept all day. Appellee alleged that appellant openly consorted with another man, Simon Goldfield. Finally appellee stated that he provided all the material items that his family required. Appellee could no longer tolerate the continued harassment by appellant and, in September 1971, after a fight with appellant in which she told him to leave, he moved out of the marital home.
Two other witnesses testified for appellee. His sister stated that the parties' home was unkept and that dishes were always piled in the sink. The family maid, Cheerful Clanagan, testified that appellant frequently nagged appellee while they were eating supper and called him a "bum" or a "half-baked bum".
Appellant testified to a somewhat different version of events. Appellant denied that she was extravagant and further stated that she did clean the house and prepare meals regularly. Appellant admits that she told appellee to drop dead, and that she called him a truck driver. She further admits that she used obscenities and told appellee that he was "shit" and that he came from "shit". Appellant acknowledged that she told appellee that she hoped his plane would crash and asked him why he didn't just leave the house. She also testified that she called appellee a meal ticket. She denied humiliating appellee in public and she attempted to excuse her conduct by stating that it occurred during arguments and that the remarks were comical. Appellant stated that in 1970, appellee began to see another woman, Gail Lockhart, and that she is the reason that appellee left appellant. Appellant explained that she became friendly with Simon Goldfield only after her separation from appellant and that their relationship was purely platonic.
Appellant presented several witnesses. The parties' 27 year-old daughter, Phyllis Hayes, testified that her mother did clean and cook and that she bathed frequently. She stated that she saw appellee and Ms. Lockhart holding hands prior to her parents' separation. Ms. Lockhart and appellee drove to State College to visit Ms. Hayes in 1971. Ms. Hayes stated that Ms. Lockhart and she were good friends as were appellee and Ms. Lockhart. Ms. Hayes did hear appellant tell appellee to drop dead. The 21 year-old son of the parties also testified that his mother cleaned the house and prepared the meals. He heard appellant tell appellee to drop dead, call appellee a truck driver, and swear at him in arguments. Two other witnesses testified that appellant became friendly with Mr. Goldfield after her separation; and that she visited him in the hospital during his terminal illness.
At the conclusion of the hearings, the master recommended that the lower court deny a divorce because appellee failed to produce sufficient evidence of indignities. In his report, the master indicated that he found that appellant testified in a "frank, honest and straight forward manner and that appellee was evasive, non-specific and extremely weak on the buttressing of his allegations." The master also stated that "the apparent circumstantial relationship existing between Ms. Lockhart and (appellee) remains unexplained and/or rebutted."
The court en banc sustained appellee's exceptions to the master's report and granted a divorce a.v.m. In its opinion, the court reviewed the evidence and found that it disclosed a course of abusive treatment by appellant which constituted indignities to the person.
Appellant first contends that appellee is not an innocent and injured spouse because he established a meretricious relationship with another woman prior to his separation from appellant. Appellant and appellee agree that Ms. Lockhart was a friend of the family and that she visited the family home in that capacity prior to their separation. Appellee denies that his relationship with Ms. Lockhart was anything more than friendship. Appellant stated that appellee never denied that he was seeing Ms. Lockhart and that she frequently came to their home in 1971.
The master did not find that appellee engaged in a meretricious relationship prior to the separation. The lower court found that appellee's relationship with Ms. Lockhart 'flowered' after the accrual of the cause of action for divorce, and, thus, cannot be successfully asserted as a defense.
Section 10(1)(f) of the Pennsylvania Divorce Law, supra, provides inter alia that: ". . . (I)t shall be lawful for the innocent and injured spouse to obtain a divorce from the bond of matrimony, . . .." Thus, appellee must be the innocent and injured spouse in order to obtain a divorce in Pennsylvania. Sells v. Sells, 228 Pa.Super. 331, 335-336, 323 A.2d 20, 23 (1974). However, if appellee were guilty of adultery prior to the accrual of his cause of action for divorce, then he would not be an innocent and injured spouse. "If the adultery occurred after the right to the divorce had accrued, it is not grounds to deny the divorce." Gehris v. Gehris, 233 Pa.Super. 144, 149-150, 334 A.2d 753, 755 (1975).
In the instant case, appellant presented no testimony of adultery whatsoever. She introduced evidence that in 1970 appellee maintained a friendship with Ms. Lockhart. However friendship with a member of the opposite sex is not proof of adultery with that person and it does not preclude a finding that appellee was innocent and injured. Moreover, appellant cannot contend that appellee's conduct with another woman provoked her own abusive behavior towards appellee because there is no evidence of a meretricious relationship prior to the parties' separation, nor does appellee's conduct give rise to a reasonable suspicion of infidelity. See DeBias v. DeBias,--- Pa.Super. ---, 369 A.2d 396 (1976). Ms. Lockhart was a family friend who visited the home with the consent of both parties. In short, appellee's cause of action for divorce accrued over a period of six years. Appellant failed to prove that appellee engaged in a meretricious relationship during that period or that his conduct gave rise to a reasonable...
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