Stanley D. v. Deborah D., 82-182

• Decision Date: 28 October 1983
• Docket Number: No. 82-182,82-182
• Citation: 124 N.H. 138,467 A.2d 249
• Parties: STANLEY D. v. DEBORAH D.
• Court: New Hampshire Supreme Court

Page 249

467 A.2d 249

124 N.H. 138

STANLEY D. v. DEBORAH D.

No. 82-182.

Supreme Court of New Hampshire.

Oct. 28, 1983.

Cooper, Hall, Whittum & Shillaber, Rochester (Donald F. Whittum, Rochester, on brief), by brief for plaintiff.

Deborah D., by brief, pro se.

BATCHELDER, Justice.

This appeal presents the question whether in a divorce proceeding, the superior court has the power and authority to award joint legal custody of a minor child to her natural mother and her stepfather, and physical custody to the stepfather. We hold that it does.

On August 17, 1974, the parties were married in Milton Mills, New Hampshire. At that time, Mrs. D., the defendant, had a child, Sarah, who had been born approximately one year previously. Sarah's natural father is known. Mr. D., the plaintiff, is Sarah's stepfather; he has taken no steps to adopt her. The parties have one child of their marriage, Jacob, who was born in August 1975. On March 24, 1981, Mr. D. filed a libel for divorce, in which he requested custody of both Sarah and Jacob. After a hearing on the merits, the Master (Stephanie Nute, Esq.) recommended that the divorce be granted, and that custody of Sarah be awarded to Mrs. D. and custody of Jacob be awarded to Mr. D.

Although the master found that Mr. D. had provided a more stable, secure and beneficial home for the children, she felt constrained to award custody of Sarah to Mrs. D. because Mr. D. was not Sarah's natural or adoptive father. On January 8, 1982, the Superior Court (Temple, J.) approved the master's recommendation. Both parties filed motions for reconsideration which were granted. After a rehearing, the master ruled that she could, in accordance with New Hampshire law, award custody of Sarah to Mr. D. Therefore, based on a determination of the best interests of the children, the master recommended that legal custody of Sarah and Jacob be awarded jointly to both parties but that physical custody of both children be awarded to Mr. D., and the superior court so decreed. The defendant appealed and a stay of execution of the decree was granted by this court.

The initial inquiry concerns the authority of the court to award custody of Sarah to her stepfather. Douglas, 3 N.H. Practice, Family Law § 253 (1982). As we have held many times, the power of the superior court to award custody is wholly statutory. Stetson v. Stetson, 103 N.H. 290, 291, 171 A.2d 28, 29 (1961). The power in the present case is granted by RSA 458:17 (Supp.1981).

"Support and Custody of Children.

I. In all cases where there shall be a decree of divorce or nullity, the court shall make such further decree in relation to the support, education and custody of the children as shall be most conducive to their benefit, and may order a reasonable provision for their support and education."

The defendant argues that this provision does not confer on the court jurisdiction to make a custody determination regarding a child who is neither the natural nor the adoptive child of both parties to the divorce. We disagree.

In this divorce proceeding, the superior court was faced not only with the ending of a marriage, but also with the dissolution of a family. Because the transcript of the hearing was not submitted to this court, the facts before us are sketchy. However on the basis of the notice of appeal, exhibits and briefs, we may conclude that a family unit was created during the marriage of the parties.

The parties were married approximately one year after Sarah's birth and according to the guardian ad litem's report, they were living together before the marriage. Mr. D. is the only father that Sarah has known. She is apparently unaware that he is not her natural father. One can perceive that Mr. D. has treated Sarah at all times as if she were his child; he has loved and supported her and has formed a psychological parent-child relationship with her. Additionally, Sarah and Jacob have been raised as brother and sister.

We hold that under these circumstances, when such a family unit has formed, the court has the power and the responsibility to make provision for the well-being of all children involved in the dissolution of the marriage. In so holding, we do not disturb the ruling of Ruben v. Ruben, 123 N.H. 358, 461 A.2d 733 (1983). In a divorce proceeding, a stepparent cannot be required after the divorce to support the children of his former spouse; however, the same stepparent may request custody of the stepchildren.

The next inquiry is what standard the court should employ in a child custody determination arising under this particular fact situation. RSA 458:17, I states that the court shall make such decree as shall be most conducive to the child's benefit. This court has held that the paramount and controlling consideration is the overall welfare of the children involved. Del Pozzo v. Del Pozzo, 113 N.H. 436, 436, 309 A.2d 151, 152 (1973). Under this analysis, the court may award sole legal and physical custody to one parent, denying the other parent all custodial privileges, including visitation rights. See Lester v. Lester, 111 N.H. 117, 119, 277 A.2d 503, 504 (1971). Additionally the court has the authority to grant custody of the child to a third party. In these latter cases the court has usually found that the parent denied custody was unfit, Butler v. Butler, 83 N.H. 413, 143 A. 471 (1928); Turner v. Turner, 86 N.H. 463, 169 A. 873 (1934), or unable to exercise the care that the child required, White v. White, 77 N.H. 26, 86 A. 353 (...