Talman v. Talman

• Citation: 455 P.2d 574,203 Kan. 601
• Decision Date: 14 June 1969
• Docket Number: No. 45365,45365
• Parties: Bernard C. TALMAN, Appellee, v. Sylvia F. TALMAN, Appellant.
• Court: Kansas Supreme Court

Page 574

455 P.2d 574

203 Kan. 601

Bernard C. TALMAN, Appellee, v. Sylvia F. TALMAN, Appellant.

No. 45365.

Supreme Court of Kansas.

June 14, 1969.

Syllabus by the Court

The record in an action for divorce is examined and, under the facts and circumstances more fully set forth in the opinion, it is held: 1. The trial court's judgment is supported by sufficient corroborated testimony. 2. There is no abuse of discretion found in the trial court's award of alimony and child support.

Max Logan, Olathe, argued the cause, and Howard E. Payne, W. C. Jones, Robert P. Anderson, Keith Martin, H. Thomas Payne, John T. Flannagan, John H. Johntz, Jr., and Edward M. Boyle, Olathe, were with him on the briefs for appellant.

John H. Fields, Kansas City, argued the cause, and David W. Carson, John K. Dear, Ernest N. Yarnevich, John William Mahoney, and Joseph T. Carey, Kansas City, were with him on the briefs for appellee.

KAUL, Justice.

Plaintiff-appellee was granted a divorce on the grounds of extreme cruelty and gross neglect of duty and in the same decree defendant-appellant, on her cross-petition, was granted a divorce on grounds of gross neglect of duty.

In her cross-petition defendant originally prayed for separate maintenance. During the course of the trial, at her request, defendant was allowed to amend and ask for a divorce. On motion for a new trial, at her request, the decree of divorce as to her action was set aside. Her request that a decree of separate maintenance be substituted therefor was denied.

In her appeal to this court defendant asks that the divorce, granted to plaintiff, be set aside on grounds of insufficient corroborative testimony and that she either be granted separate maintenance by this court or in the alternative that the case be remanded for a new trial. Defendant also appeals from the award of alimony and child support. She claims her needs and those of the two minor children total $450 per month and that the trial court abused its discretion in awarding alimony in the amount of $200 for a period of six months and $100 per month thereafter for an additional period of four and one-half years and child support in the amount of $175 per month.

At the time of the trial the parties had been married for more than twenty-one years. They had two minor children, ages seventeen and ten years.

After hearing the evidence of both parties the trial court found as follows:

'The parties' assets consist of a small equity in the home which was purchased without a down payment in 1964, furniture valued at $2,000.00, a 1966 Chevrolet valued at approximately $1,900.00, a paid up insurance policy for $1,000.00 and another insurance policy for $7,500.00 the value of which was not shown by the evidence. The plaintiff's take home pay is approximately $650.00 a month. The defendant completed high school and two years of college and is unemployed. She has done sales work and is capable of earning $60.00 to $70.00 a week. The plaintiff borrowed $763.00 to pay attorneys' fees and court costs. This is to be paid in monthly installments of $42.39.

'The defendant has been guilty of gross neglect of duty and extreme cruelty, and the plaintiff has been guilty of gross neglect of duty.

'The defendant is a suitable and proper person to be awarded custody of the children.'

The defendant was awarded custody of the children, subject to reasonable visitation by plaintiff. Defendant was awarded the home, subject to the mortgage thereon and the furniture and household goods. Plaintiff was awarded the insurance policies and the 1966 Chevrolet.

After hearing a motion of defendant, to increase alimony and child support, to vacate the decree or in the alternative grant defendant a new trial, the trial court increased the award for child support from $75 per month for each child to $87.50 per month, or a total monthly award of child support in the amount of $175.00; and, as previously noted, vacated that part of the decree granting defendant a divorce.

The record discloses considerable conflicting testimony and reflects that the parties had lived in a quarrelsome relationship for several years prior to their separation. One of the chief causes of controversy appears to have been defendant's mother. From the evidence of both parties it appears that many of their arguments stemmed from the relationship of defendant's mother to their family.

Briefly, plaintiff testified that defendant allowed her mother to come into their home, dominate the family and boss them; that no family decisions could be made unless defendant consulted with her mother; that defendant told plaintiff in no uncertain terms that her mother was foremost; that defendant's mother continually interfered with the raising of their children; that he had a job offer in Los Angeles but defendant would not move because it meant moving away from her parents; and that when there was talk of leaving defendant would say that plaintiff could leave but that she would not move away from her parents. Plaintiff testified that he tried to persuade defendant to keep her mother away from the home and cease interfering with plaintiff, defendant and their children but that defendant not only refused to curb her mother's interference but actually encouraged it.

Plaintiff further testified that the arguments would become bitter, make him nervous and that he would leave the house on occasions because defendant nagged him about his relationship with her parents. He testified that when he had friends or relatives visiting, defendant's mother would drop by without invitation and monopolize the conversation to the point that it was impossible for him to have friends or relatives in the home.

We believe the evidence fairly justifies the conclusion that defendant encouraged and condoned her mother's interference in the marital life and family affairs of plaintiff and defendant.

Defendant's own conduct and her refusal to restrain her mother's interference in the home apparently became unbearable to plaintiff. A course of conduct on the part of one spouse which has become intolerable to the other, so as to disrupt domestic harmony and to destroy legitimate matrimonial objectives, has often been characterized as behavior amounting to extreme cruelty. (Haynes v. Haynes, 202 Kan. 83, 446 P.2d 749, and Saint v. Saint, 196 Kan. 330, 411 P.2d 683.) Cruelty as a ground for divorce is generally a course of conduct rather...