Byler v. Byler

• Decision Date: 01 July 2022
• Docket Number: 452,CAF 21-01187
• Citation: 170 N.Y.S.3d 459
• Parties: In the Matter of Melinda BYLER, Petitioner-Appellant, v. Kenneth BYLER and Mary Byler, Respondents-Respondents.
• Court: New York Supreme Court — Appellate Division

170 N.Y.S.3d 459

In the Matter of Melinda BYLER, Petitioner-Appellant,

v.Kenneth BYLER and Mary Byler, Respondents-Respondents.

452

CAF 21-01187

Supreme Court, Appellate Division, Fourth Department, New York.

Entered: July 1, 2022

CAITLIN M. CONNELLY, BUFFALO, FOR PETITIONER-APPELLANT.

AVERY S. OLSON, JAMESTOWN, ATTORNEY FOR THE CHILDREN.

PRESENT: CENTRA, J.P., PERADOTTO, LINDLEY, NEMOYER, AND WINSLOW, JJ.

MEMORANDUM AND ORDER

It is hereby ORDERED that the order so appealed from is unanimously affirmed without costs.

Memorandum: In this proceeding pursuant to Family Court Act article 6, petitioner mother appeals from an order that, inter alia, determined following a hearing that respondent Mary Byler (aunt), the subject children's paternal aunt, established extraordinary circumstances, ordered that it was in the best interests of the children to remain in the care of the aunt, awarded the aunt sole custody and physical placement of the children, and awarded the mother visitation in the form of weekly video/electronic communication with the children. We affirm.

" ‘[A]s between a parent and a nonparent, the parent has a superior right to custody that cannot be denied unless the nonparent establishes that the parent has relinquished that right because of surrender, abandonment, persisting neglect, unfitness or other like extraordinary circumstances ... The nonparent has the burden of proving that extraordinary circumstances exist, and until such circumstances are shown, the court does not reach the issue of the best interests of the child’ " ( Matter of Orlowski v. Zwack , 147 A.D.3d 1445, 1446, 46 N.Y.S.3d 770 [4th Dept. 2017] ; see Matter of Bennett v. Jeffreys , 40 N.Y.2d 543, 545-546, 387 N.Y.S.2d 821, 356 N.E.2d 277 [1976] ; Matter of Byler v. Byler , 185 A.D.3d 1403, 1404, 128 N.Y.S.3d 385 [4th Dept. 2020] ). That rule " ‘applies even if there is an existing order of custody concerning that child unless there is a prior determination that extraordinary circumstances exist’ " ( Matter of Wolfford v. Stephens , 145 A.D.3d 1569, 1570, 43 N.Y.S.3d 837 [4th Dept. 2016] ; see Byler , 185 A.D.3d at 1404, 128 N.Y.S.3d 385 ; Orlowski , 147 A.D.3d at 1446, 46 N.Y.S.3d 770 ). " ‘Examples of extraordinary circumstances found by courts include prolonged separation, disruption of custody for a prolonged period of time and attachment of the child to the custodian ..., sibling separation ..., psychological bonding of the child to the custodian and potential harm to the child ..., the biological parent's abdication of parental rights and responsibilities ... and the child's poor relationship with the biological parent’ " ( Matter of Hilkert v. Parsons-O'Dell , 187 A.D.3d 1675, 1676, 133 N.Y.S.3d 372 [4th Dept. 2020], lv denied 36 N.Y.3d 905, 140 N.Y.S.3d 188, 163 N.E.3d 1105, 2021 WL 505098 [2021]).

The mother contends that Family Court erred in determining that extraordinary circumstances existed, thereby warranting an inquiry into the best interests of the children, because the evidence at the hearing was insufficient to meet the aunt's burden. We reject that contention. Preliminarily, contrary to the mother's assertion, the court's "determination to credit the [aunt's] testimony over the mother's in determining the existence of extraordinary circumstances is entitled to great deference" and, here, we see no reason to disturb that credibility determination ( Matter of Johnson v. Wellington , 185 A.D.3d 1549, 1549-1550, 125 N.Y.S.3d 918 [4th Dept. 2020] ; see Matter of Miner v. Torres , 179 A.D.3d 1490, 1491, 118 N.Y.S.3d 844 [4th Dept. 2020] ). As a further preliminary matter, we reject the mother's challenge to the admission at the hearing of threatening text messages and website posts made by her inasmuch as she waived that challenge by stipulating to the admission of that evidence (see Matter of DeViteri v. Saldana , 95 A.D.3d 1221, 1222, 944 N.Y.S.2d 635 [2d Dept. 2012] ). Additionally, the court did not err in according that evidence appropriate weight after crediting the hearing proof that the mother was the sender of the text messages and the author of the website posts (see generally People v. Tucker , 200 A.D.3d 1584, 1586, 159 N.Y.S.3d 283 [4th Dept. 2021], lv denied 38 N.Y.3d 954, 165 N.Y.S.3d 456, 185 N.E.3d 977 [2022] ; Matter of Gorton v. Inman , 147 A.D.3d 1537, 1538, 47 N.Y.S.3d 569 [4th Dept. 2017] ; Matter of Colby II. [Sheba II.] , 145 A.D.3d 1271, 1273, 43 N.Y.S.3d 587 [3d Dept. 2016] ).

With respect to the substance of the court's extraordinary circumstances determination, we reject the mother's assertion that the court improperly relied upon the approximately five-year separation between the mother and the children. It is well established that " ‘the child may be so long in the custody of the nonparent’ that separation from the natural parent amounts to an extraordinary circumstance, especially when ‘the psychological trauma of removal is grave enough to threaten destruction of the child’ " ( Matter of Male Infant L. , 61 N.Y.2d 420, 428, 474 N.Y.S.2d 447, 462 N.E.2d 1165 [1984], quoting Bennett , 40 N.Y.2d at 550, 387 N.Y.S.2d 821, 356 N.E.2d 277 ). Conversely, however, when "the separation between the natural parent and child is not in any way attributable to a lack of interest or concern for the parental role, that separation does not amount to an extraordinary circumstance and, indeed, deserves little significance" ( id. at 429, 474 N.Y.S.2d 447, 462 N.E.2d 1165 ; see Matter of Dickson v. Lascaris , 53 N.Y.2d 204, 209-210, 440 N.Y.S.2d 884, 423 N.E.2d 361 [1981] ; Matter of Cote v. Brown , 299 A.D.2d 876, 877-878, 750 N.Y.S.2d 254 [4th Dept. 2002] ). Here, while the mother characterizes her filing of more than 85 petitions as legitimate attempts to regain custody of the children during the approximately five years that they were living with the aunt, that characterization is refuted by the record. The court found that the mother's numerous petitions, only a few of which raised issues that fell within the jurisdiction of Family Court, constituted abusive and harassing litigation that unfairly burdened the aunt by requiring her to appear to avoid default, thereby justifying its imposition of judicial screening for any future petitions. The mother does not challenge that finding on appeal. The mother's numerous petitions are therefore appropriately viewed as abusive and vexatious litigation rather than "serious attempts to regain custody or resume a parental role in the child[ren's] li[ves]" ( Orlowski , 147 A.D.3d at 1447, 46 N.Y.S.3d 770 ; cf. Dickson , 53 N.Y.2d at 209-210, 440 N.Y.S.2d 884, 423 N.E.2d 361 ; Cote , 299 A.D.2d at 877-878, 750 N.Y.S.2d 254 ).

In any event, even if the prolonged separation alone is entitled to little significance here, the combination of that factor along with others present on this record sufficiently establish the existence of extraordinary circumstances. Although the mother would have us review the factors as though each was the only one present, we note that "[t]he extraordinary circumstances analysis must consider ‘the cumulative effect’ of all issues present in a given case and not view each factor in isolation" ( Matter of Pettaway v. Savage , 87 A.D.3d 796, 797, 928 N.Y.S.2d 869 [3d Dept. 2011], lv denied 18 N.Y.3d 801, 2011 WL 6155545 [2011] ). We conclude that the aunt met her burden of establishing that extraordinary circumstances existed based upon the cumulative effect of, among other things, the mother's voluntary relinquishment of physical custody of the children, the subsequent protracted separation between the mother and the children, the psychological bonding of the children to the aunt and potential harm to the children if removed from the aunt's...