Cohen v. Cohen

• Citation: 114 N.Y.S.3d 458,177 A.D.3d 848
• Decision Date: 20 November 2019
• Docket Number: Index No. 3/17,2018–08623
• Parties: Rivka COHEN, Respondent, v. Tzvi COHEN, Appellant.
• Court: New York Supreme Court Appellate Division

177 A.D.3d 848

114 N.Y.S.3d 458

Rivka COHEN, Respondent,

v.Tzvi COHEN, Appellant.

2018–08623

Index No. 3/17

Supreme Court, Appellate Division, Second Department, New York.

Argued - September 27, 2019

November 20, 2019

Morrison & Foerster LLP, New York, N.Y. (Joseph R. Palmore, Ruti Smithline, Lena H. Hughes, and Cecillia X. Xie of counsel), for appellant.

Levine & Associates, P.C., Scarsdale, N.Y. (Michael Levine of counsel), for respondent.

WILLIAM F. MASTRO, J.P., CHERYL E. CHAMBERS, JOHN M. LEVENTHAL, LINDA CHRISTOPHER, JJ.

DECISION & ORDER

In an action for a divorce and ancillary relief, the defendant appeals from a judgment of divorce of the Supreme Court, Rockland County (Thomas E. Walsh II, J.), entered July 18, 2018. The judgment of divorce, insofar as appealed from, upon an order of the same court dated May 31, 2018, made after a nonjury trial, and upon an amended order of the same court dated July 17, 2018, awarded the plaintiff sole legal custody of the parties' children, with certain parental access to the defendant; directed the defendant to provide the children with exclusively kosher food and to make all reasonable efforts to ensure that the children's appearance and conduct comply with the Hasidic religious requirements of the plaintiff and of the children's schools while the children are in his physical custody; directed the defendant to pay $1,116.97 per month in child support and 77% of unreimbursed medical expenses, tuition, camp, other child care expenses, and statutory add-ons; permitted the plaintiff to claim the children as dependents on her income tax returns; and failed to direct that the defendant have access to the children's medical, dental, therapeutic, educational, and extracurricular records.

ORDERED that the judgment of divorce is modified, on the law and in the exercise of discretion, (1) by deleting the provision thereof awarding the plaintiff sole legal custody of the parties' children, and substituting therefor a provision awarding the plaintiff sole legal custody of the parties' children, except that the defendant is awarded decision-making authority with respect to the children's mental health treatment; (2) by deleting the provision thereof directing the defendant to pay $1,116.97 per month in child support and 77% of unreimbursed medical expenses, tuition, camp, other child care expenses, and statutory add-ons; (3) by deleting the provision thereof permitting the plaintiff to claim the children as dependents on her income tax returns, and substituting therefor a provision stating that each party is entitled to declare one of the children as a dependent on his or her income tax returns, and directing the plaintiff to execute the appropriate Internal Revenue Service forms; and (4) by adding a provision thereto directing that the defendant shall have access to the children's medical, dental, therapeutic, educational, and extracurricular records, and directing the plaintiff to take all steps necessary to ensure such access; as so modified, the judgment of divorce is affirmed insofar as appealed from, without costs or disbursements, the order dated May 31, 2018, and the amended order dated July 17, 2018, are modified accordingly, and the matter is remitted to the Supreme Court, Rockland County, for a recalculation of the defendant's obligation for child support and unreimbursed medical expenses, tuition, camp, other child care expenses, and statutory add-ons in accordance herewith and the entry of an appropriate amended judgment of divorce thereafter.

The parties were married on November 17, 2009. There are two children of the marriage, born in 2011 and 2013, respectively. During the early years of the marriage, the parties practiced Satmar Hasidic Judaism. At a certain point, the defendant (hereinafter the father) became non-religious, although he continued to appear religious in his dress and customs. The parties separated in December 2016. In January 2017, the plaintiff (hereinafter the mother) commenced this action for a divorce and ancillary relief. Following a nonjury trial, the Supreme Court awarded the mother sole physical and legal custody of the children, with parental access to the father. The father was directed to provide the children with exclusively kosher food and to make "all reasonable efforts to ensure that the children's appearance and conduct comply with the ‘Hasidic’ religious requirements of the [mother] and of the children's schools as they were raised while the children are in [his] physical custody." The court emphasized, however, that it was not mandating any specific mode of dress or religious practices for the father during his periods of parental access. The court also calculated the father's child support obligation, among other determinations. A judgment of divorce was entered on July 18, 2018. The father appeals.

The court's paramount concern when making any custody determination is the best interests of the children (see Eschbach v. Eschbach, 56 N.Y.2d 167, 171, 451 N.Y.S.2d 658, 436 N.E.2d 1260 ; Friederwitzer v. Friederwitzer, 55 N.Y.2d 89, 94, 447 N.Y.S.2d 893, 432 N.E.2d 765 ), as determined upon a consideration of the totality of the circumstances (see Eschbach v. Eschbach, 56 N.Y.2d at 174, 451 N.Y.S.2d 658, 436 N.E.2d 1260 ). "Factors to be considered include the quality of the home environment and the parental guidance the custodial parent provides for the child, the ability of each parent to provide for the child's emotional and intellectual development, the financial status and ability of each parent to provide for the child, the relative fitness of the respective parents, and the effect an award of custody to one parent might have on the child's relationship with the other parent" ( Mohen v. Mohen, 53 A.D.3d 471, 473, 862 N.Y.S.2d 75 [internal quotation marks omitted] ). " ‘When presented as an issue, religion may be considered as one of the factors in determining the best interest[s] of a child, although it alone may not be the determinative factor’ " ( Weisberger v. Weisberger, 154 A.D.3d 41, 52, 60 N.Y.S.3d 265, quoting Aldous v. Aldous, 99 A.D.2d 197, 199, 473 N.Y.S.2d 60 ). " ‘New York courts will consider religion in a custody dispute when a child has developed actual religious ties to a specific religion and those needs can be served better by one parent than the other’ " ( Weisberger v. Weisberger, 154 A.D.3d at 52, 60 N.Y.S.3d 265, quoting Aldous v. Aldous, 99 A.D.2d at 199, 473 N.Y.S.2d 60 ; see Matter of Gribeluk v. Gribeluk, 120 A.D.3d 579, 579, 991 N.Y.S.2d 117 ).

"Custody determinations turn in large part on assessments of the credibility, character, temperament, and sincerity of the parties, and where a full evidentiary hearing has been held on the child's best interests, the resultant findings will not be lightly set aside on appeal" ( Matter of Roldan v. Nieves, 76 A.D.3d 634, 635, 905 N.Y.S.2d 772 ; see Matter of Gorsky v. Kessler, 78 A.D.3d 834, 835, 911 N.Y.S.2d 129 ).

The father's contention that he should have been awarded additional parental access is without merit. It is undisputed that the mother was the primary caregiver for the children throughout their lives (see Matter of Recher v. Velez, 143 A.D.3d 828, 829, 38 N.Y.S.3d 811 ; Matter of Thomas v. Tretola, 135 A.D.3d 867, 867, 24 N.Y.S.3d 160 ). Maintenance of the status quo, while not decisive, is a positive value entitled to great weight (see Matter of Newton v. McFarlane, 174 A.D.3d 67, 82, 103 N.Y.S.3d 445 ; Weisberger v. Weisberger, 154 A.D.3d at 54, 60 N.Y.S.3d 265 ). The father concedes that he wishes for the children to maintain residential stability by continuing to reside with the mother. Further, the children have been raised practicing Hasidic Judaism, and have developed actual ties to the religion, which the mother is better positioned to support (see Matter of Gribeluk v. Gribeluk, 120 A.D.3d at 579, 991 N.Y.S.2d 117 ). Under these circumstances, there was a sound and substantial basis in the record for the Supreme Court's determination concerning the father's parental access.

The father contends that the mother should not have been awarded sole legal custody due to her alleged alienation of the children from him (see generally E.V. v. R.V., 165 A.D.3d 736, 737, 85 N.Y.S.3d 84 ). While the mother's actions in limiting the father's parental access with the children after the parties' separation should not be condoned, the totality of the circumstances provides a sound and substantial basis for the Supreme Court's determination as to legal custody in almost all respects. However, where, as here, joint custody is not possible due to fundamental disagreements concerning the children, it may be appropriate, depending upon the particular circumstances of the case, to award some custodial decision-making authority to the noncustodial parent (see Matter of E.D. v. D.T., 152 A.D.3d 583, 584, 58 N.Y.S.3d 527 ; Chamberlain v. Chamberlain, 24 A.D.3d 589, 591, 808 N.Y.S.2d 352 ).

Here, the father was scheduled to join the children for a therapy session to discuss parental access issues when the mother fired the children's therapist. She thereafter retained a new therapist for the children without the father's knowledge. The new therapist did not meet with or contact the father or the previous therapist, but opined at trial that the father should be limited to supervised therapeutic visitation. The Supreme Court found that the mother's reason for changing the therapist on the eve of trial was "suspect," and disregarded the therapist's testimony as biased. We conclude that the mother's actions regarding the children's therapy had the effect of...