Lamb v. Lamb, 2040487.
Decision Date | 20 January 2006 |
Docket Number | 2040487. |
Citation | 939 So.2d 918 |
Court | Alabama Court of Civil Appeals |
Parties | Patricia LAMB v. Jonathan LAMB |
Banks T. Smith of Hall, Smith, Prim & Freeman, P.A., Dothan, for appellant.
W. Terry Bullard, Dothan, for appellee.
On September 21, 2004, Jonathan Lamb ("the husband") sued Patricia Lamb ("the wife"), seeking a divorce, alleging as grounds for the divorce an incompatibility of temperament and an irretrievable breakdown of the marital relationship. Although the wife argued at the trial that she should have custody of the couple's child because the husband had been abusive toward the wife during the marriage, the trial court's judgment awarded custody to the husband. The wife appeals, alleging that the trial court erred in making its custody award and in awarding the marital home to the husband.
The couple married in August 2000 and had one child born to them during their marriage. The wife has four other children, for whom she receives child support, from previous relationships. The husband has a child from a previous relationship. The wife alleged at trial, and several witnesses testified, that the husband was abusive toward her during their marriage. The wife stated that she had had a nervous breakdown and had been confined to a hospital as a result of the husband's abuse. Although she never testified specifically what that abuse was or when it happened, several witnesses for the wife elaborated upon the alleged abuse when they testified.
A neighbor who lived across the street from the couple stated that he called the police more than 10 times to report "incidents." On one occasion the neighbor saw the husband slap one of the wife's children from a previous relationship to the ground. Another time the neighbor heard the couple yelling inside their home; then, when the couple went onto the porch, he saw the husband knock the wife down and almost off the porch. On yet another occasion the neighbor called the "animal control" when he saw the husband punch a puppy in the face. However, the neighbor also admitted that the husband appeared to be a good father to the couple's child and that because the fights had started inside the couple's house he could not refute testimony indicating that the wife had started the fights by throwing things at the husband.
Barbara Pruitt, a former girlfriend to the husband before he was married to the wife in this case, testified that when she was in a relationship with the husband he was abusive toward her and, at times, toward their child. Pruitt also stated that the husband lied to the Department of Human Resources after they had separated. Despite the husband's efforts to the contrary, Pruitt stated, she has sole custody of their child and the husband has no right to visitation. However, Pruitt admitted that the husband had never been convicted of any of the abuse she alleged.
The wife's mother also testified, stating that she had witnessed the husband abuse the wife and tie cats to a ceiling fan. However, the husband indicated that his wife's parents should not be trusted to tell the truth by testifying that his wife's parents called his employer and falsely claimed that he was using drugs.
Additionally, there was other evidence on which the trial court could have relied in awarding the child's custody to the husband, including allegations that the parties' child and the wife's other children were poorly cared for by the wife. Most of the wife's children were alleged to have trouble in school and to have missed many days because of head lice. When questioned by the husband's attorney about her children's school performance and attendance, the wife's answers to questions were often simply "I don't know" or "I don't recall." Also, the wife stated that she had been recently hospitalized for a nervous breakdown and had been locked up at night in the mental ward. The husband testified that one of the wife's children went to school one day in clothes in which the child had urinated. Furthermore, the husband submitted pictures to the trial court of the home maintained by the wife, which the husband alleged was "messy."
The husband also stated that he wanted custody of the child because he wanted the child to have the best education, clean clothes, and no lice. Additionally, there was evidence indicating that the husband helped the child with her homework, using flash cards every night to learn the ABC's. Although the husband works, he testified that he picks up the child from after-school care and that he hired a neighbor to take the child to school in the morning. The husband denied all the allegations of abuse toward the wife and the children.
The husband testified that he has worked at "Pemco Aviation World Air" for five years and that he earns $2,500 a month in wages. Although the wife claimed, and her mother testified, that the wife had made payments on the couple's marital home from the child-support payments she had received for her other children, the husband claimed that he paid for the marital home completely on his own.
The trial court's judgment awarded custody of the couple's child to the husband and awarded the couple's marital home to the husband as well. The wife moved the trial court for a new trial or, in the alternative, to amend its judgment. The trial court subsequently entered an amended judgment, noting that although there was evidence of a "skirmish" between the parties and between the husband and one of the wife's children, there was no evidence indicating that the husband had ever been violent toward the parties' child. The trial court also observed that the husband has a stable job and cares for his child's hygiene and education. In contrast, the trial judge noted, the wife is not employed, has four other children to care for, and appears "to be careless in her requirements concerning education and personal hygiene." Ultimately, the trial court decided that it was in the best interests of the child to be placed with the husband.
Ex parte Bryowsky, 676 So.2d 1322, 1324-26 (Ala.1996).
Ex parte Foley, 864 So.2d 1094, 1099 (Ala.2003) (citations omitted).
"`' " Smith v. Smith, 727 So.2d 113, 114 (Ala.Civ.App.1998)(quoting Collier v. Collier, 698 So.2d 150, 151 (Ala.Civ.App.1997), quoting in turn Graham v. Graham, 640 So.2d 963, 964 (Ala.Civ.App.1994)).
However, as this court stated in Headrick v. Headrick, 916 So.2d 610, 613-614 (Ala.Civ.App.2005):
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